Hello, I’m Rebecca.
I’m so glad you’re here.

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I specialize in trauma recovery and relational health, using integrative somatic and relational approaches. While I’m not currently accepting new therapy clients, I continue to support folx through relationship intensives, experiential workshops, & consultation for therapists.

METHODS & MODALITIES

My work draws from a blend of powerful integrative and experiential modalities for relational healing and trauma resolution to help you access and trust your innate healing process so you bring the most authentic version of your Self into relationship with skill and nuance.

  • STAIR is an integrative methodology that offers a framework to support power-with collaborative relationships and brain wise healing. The STAIR Method was developed by Juliane Taylor Shore and is based in the science of Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB). STAIR supports folks in growing self trust and listening more deeply to the wisdom of their experiences with more nuance. STAIR is an acronym for Self-Trust And Integrated Resilience. I’m am among the first cohort certified in the STAIR Method and directly mentored by Jules.

    I'm certified as a STAIR Method Therapist and training as a STAIR Method Deliberate Practice Guide.

  • SE transforms emotional and early developmental attachment trauma through witnessing where you may be “stuck” in fight, flight or freeze responses and provides tools to help you resolve these fixated states. SE is a body-oriented therapeutic model for resolving symptoms of stress, shock, and trauma that accumulate in our bodies.

    I’m a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Training Assistant with Somatic Experiencing International. I’m an approved provider of Personal Sessions to SEI students in the beginning and intermediate years.

  • IFS conceives every human being as a system of protected and wounded inner parts lead by a core Self. IFS helps folks heal via a non-pathologizing stance, believing the mind is naturally multiple and that is a good thing. Self is in everyone. It can’t be damaged. It knows how to heal.

    IFIO is a model of relationship therapy that draws primarily from the IFS model of psychotherapy. It is an experiential model born out of a desire to carry the concepts of IFS into a relational setting and to use the intimate relationship itself as a vehicle for growth and healing for both the individual and between partners.

    I am a level 2 IFS therapist, trained in both IFS and IFIO.

  • DBR is a neuroscientifically guided intervention that aims to slowly turn toward and process traumatic and shock experiences by working with brainstem-level neurophysiological sequences that occurred when the deep brain had been alerted to a threat or an attachment disruption.

    I’m Level 2 trained in DBR and in monthly consultation with Dr. Jessica Christie-Sands.

  • DARTT is process initially developed by Pia Mellody and expanded on by the Healing Our Core Issue Institute (HOCII) that maps of your developmental history, helps you to reparent your historical selves, and stand in your truth. It offers an experiential model of working with, and healing, family of origin and trauma issues.

    I completed HOCII’s 2 year training program and am certified in DARTT.

  • RLT is an approach that helps couples move back into connection, work through infidelity and trust issues, increase intimacy, improve communication, and deepen relational integrity. At it’s core, RLT strives to help people move out of power over/under relational dynamics, make powerful insights, sustain lasting change, and integrate healthy new relational skills moment by moment in daily life.

    I’m a certified Relational Life Therapist, Facilitator and Bootcamp Leader.

MY WORK

For over two decades, I’ve been guiding people in untangling echoes of legacy, honoring the wisdom of protective systems, and cultivating relational practices that support generational wellness. This work is central to my experiential approach to relational trauma healing, which I call Connectfulness®.

Through therapy, intensives, workshops, consulting, and teaching, I help people get unstuck, deepen self-trust, and re-root in connection.

ABOUT ME

I live and work in New York’s Hudson Valley, on Lenape land, with my partner, our teens, and a handful of four-legged mischief makers. I’m a mid-life, neurospicy, cis woman shaped by a diasporic lineage, attuned to patterns of justice, repair, and resistance within a power-with approach in my work.

I’d be honored to walk with you on this journey.

WAYS WE CAN WORK TOGETHER

  • Experiential therapy for individuals, partners, or relational systems. I specialize in trauma recovery and relational health, using integrative somatic and relational approaches. Offered virtually in NY, MA, CO, and FL, and in-person sessions in New Paltz, NY. Openings on my caseload are rare.

  • Seven long form sessions (totaling 20 hours) offering a deep container for relational healing. Rooted in relational trauma work and brain-savvy approaches. Supports individuals, partners, or systems ready to shift patterns and reconnect more sustainably.
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  • Experiential workshops that weave somatic, relational, and trauma-informed practices with brain-savvy insights to help you reflect, explore, and reshape how you relate to yourself and others.
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  • Support for therapists in integrating somatic trauma recovery, relational health, neurobiological awareness, and shared-power-with practices into your work, helping you deepen presence, and expand your capacity to support both yourself and your clients in challenging clinical moments.
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  • Three archived shows with nearly 250 episodes exploring relational healing, nervous system awareness, and undoing the aloneness we all carry.
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