You spend something between “too much” and “not enough” of your limited resources tending to your relationship, your family, your work, and all of the other little details of life.

No matter what, it almost never feels “just right.” Each day feels like a struggle. And love and togetherness so often get lost in the chaos.

You want love, intimacy and connection.

Problem is, you’re not exactly sure what that looks and feels like in the midst of modern life.

I’m passionate about helping people, just like you, who are struggling in relationships. Your struggle to let anyone else see you begins with a struggle to see yourself. It can be uncomfortable to slow down and give yourself permission to be seen and see yourself. That’s where the magic ripples forth from though —when you can identify what you feel, want and need— that’s where Connectfulness begins…

relationship therapist in New Paltz, NY


I’m Rebecca Wong, LCSW-R, a relationship therapist and consultant.

I’m also the creator of Connectfulness, a research-based practice that encourages you to explore and embrace every aspect of your humanity – including everything that’s marvelous and all that’s messy.

My mission is to help you escape feelings of lack and overwhelm and fall in love again with the life you live and the people who matter most.

Make  love, intimacy, and connection a priority. Schedule your consult today!

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